Kiaan's Holi Adventure

 In a grand mansion in a quaint town, the air buzzed with anticipation as Holi approached. Kiaan, a spirited 4-year-old with a mischievous twinkle in his eye, bounded through the halls, his laughter echoing like the melody of a playful stream.

"Kiaan, go play outside," I urged, my tone gentle but firm as I shooed him away from the adults' conversations.

But Kiaan was on a quest, a quest fueled by boundless curiosity and an insatiable thirst for knowledge. With each step, he peppered the air with a barrage of questions, his tiny voice echoing off the ornate walls of the mansion.

"What’s a festival? What is celebration?" ?" he asked, his 'r' rolling into a pronounced 'l' that only added to his adorable charm.

"Hey, Kiaan," his Maasi Riya chirped, her eyes sparkling with mischief as she twirled a strand of her hair. "A festival is like a big party, but with extra sparkles and giggles!"

Kiaan's brow furrowed in concentration as he processed Riya's explanation. "So, it's like a party for the whole town?” he quipped, his eyes wide with wonder.

"Exactly!" Riya exclaimed, her grin widening. "And celebration is when everyone dances and sings and eats yummy food till their tummies are as full as balloons!"

Kiaan's eyes lit up with excitement as he envisioned the scene Riya described. "Wow! I want to celebrate every day!" he declared, his laughter ringing through the room like a chorus of bells.

His uncle chuckled, ruffling Kiaan's hair affectionately. "Celebrating every day might be a bit much, buddy," he teased, his eyes twinkling with amusement. "But we can make every day special by finding joy in the little things, like sharing laughter with loved ones or watching the sunset."

Kiaan nodded thoughtfully, absorbing his uncle's words like a sponge. "So, celebration is about being happy together?" he mused, his gaze drifting to the colorful festivities outside.

"Exactly," his uncle replied, his voice warm with affection. "And today, we're celebrating the joy of being a family, of making memories that will last a lifetime."

"But why colours?" he asked, wondering.

The adults exchanged amused glances, their patience wearing thin as they attempted to placate the relentless stream of inquiries. "Go play, Kiaan," they said, their voices laced with gentle exasperation.

Undeterred, Kiaan turned to his grandfather, his eyes wide with wonder. "Tell me about Holi, Dada," he pleaded, tugging at the hem of his grandfather's robe.

And so, seated amidst a sea of cushions and draped in the warm embrace of love, Kiaan listened with rapt attention as his grandfather spun tales of ancient legends and timeless traditions. He learned of Holika, the evil demoness whose demise marked the triumph of good over evil, and of Prahlad, the virtuous prince whose unwavering faith sparked the birth of Holi as a festival of colours.

Kiaan's thirst for knowledge was insatiable. He now turned to his aunts and uncles, questioning each in turn about the significance of colours, and the joy of celebration.

"Hey Kiaan, why don't you go play with your toys?" suggested his uncle, a hint of concern in his voice.

"But why can't I play with the colours?" asked Kiaan, eyes wide with curiosity.

"Because the colours might hurt your eyes if they get in them," he explained.

"Why colours make eyes owie?" Kiaan asked, his brow furrowed in confusion.

In that moment, a hush fell over the room as the adults exchanged worried glances. But before anyone could respond, Riya swooped in with a gentle smile, her eyes twinkling with determination.

"Let's make our own colours, Kiaan," she declared, her voice tinged with excitement. "From vegetables! It will be fun!"

The kids all lit up at this and dropped whatever it was they were doing and rushed in with a whole barrage of questions.

“Vegetables? Really?” they quipped.

“Yes, and you can be all squishy with them” she said.

“Yo Hoo” screamed the kids, and rushed towards the kitchen to grab whatever much they could.

And so, armed with beets, turmeric, and spinach, the whole family embarked on a colorful adventure. Amidst peals of laughter and the vibrant hues of homemade colours, we bonded over shared experiences, creating memories that would last a lifetime.

In Kiaan's innocent curiosity and boundless energy, we found a spark of inspiration, a reminder of the joy that lay in embracing the simple pleasures of life. And as we danced amidst a kaleidoscope of colours, the mansion echoed with the laughter of children and the joy of celebration, bringing the family closer together in a tapestry of love and joyousness.

 

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Myopic Views in a Global Society

I think we can all agree that there are many examples of narrow-minded and short-sighted perspectives in the world today. Whether it's in politics, culture, social norms, or economic systems, myopic views can lead to discrimination, prejudice, and a lack of progress.

The world is full of rich and varied cultures, and more often than not, we only focus on a few dominant ones. This leads to a lack of appreciation for other cultural expressions and contributes to a sense of exclusion among those who do not belong to the dominant group. Popular culture often celebrates a narrow range of expressions, from movies to pop music. This lack of diversity can contribute to cultural ignorance and prejudice against other cultures.

The dominant culture is often portrayed as superior to other cultures, leading to discrimination and prejudice against minority groups. For example, in Japan, the concept of "racial purity" has led to discrimination against people of mixed-race or non-Japanese ancestry. This ignores the rich diversity of cultures and identities that exist in the world and contributes to a lack of understanding and empathy.

Many societies continue to cling to outdated social norms that limit the potential of certain groups of people, including women, minorities, and the LGBTQ+ community, leading to discrimination and prejudice and prevents these groups from fully participating in society. Systemic racism and discrimination against people of color continues to exist in many areas of society, from housing to education to healthcare.

In many developing countries, natural resources are exploited for short-term gains, leading to environmental destruction and social inequality. Similarly, in many developed countries, economic systems prioritize corporate profits over the well-being of workers, leading to income inequality and economic instability.

But it's not all bad news. There are many examples of individuals and communities working towards a more inclusive and expansive view of the world. From grassroots social movements to innovative economic models, there are many ways in which we can break free from myopic views and embrace diversity, collaboration, and sustainability.

For example, the concept of "intersectionality" has gained popularity in recent years, highlighting the ways in which different forms of oppression, such as racism, sexism, and homophobia, intersect and compound to create unique experiences of discrimination and marginalization.

However, there are still many people who fail to recognize the impact of intersectionality, and who continue to view social issues through a narrow lens that fails to account for the complex ways in which different forms of oppression intersect and interact. Some people may view issues of racism and sexism as separate and distinct, failing to recognize how they can compound and impact women of colour in unique and harmful ways, thereby preventing meaningful progress on important issues related to social justice and can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and biases.

Education is another area where such short - sightedness can have a significant impact. When we fail to teach the children about diverse perspectives and experiences, we risk perpetuating stereotypes and limiting their potential. Many history curriculums around the world focus primarily on the accomplishments of white men, while ignoring the contributions of women, people of colour, and other marginalized groups. This not only perpetuates harmful stereotypes, but also fails to give students a comprehensive understanding of history and the world.

When we fail to recognize the value of diverse perspectives and experiences, we limit the potential for innovation and progress. Consider this: in the field of artificial intelligence, there has been a growing recognition of the importance of diversity in data sets and in the development of algorithms. This recognition has come as a result of concerns that AI technologies may perpetuate existing biases and discrimination, particularly against marginalized groups.

When we fail to consider alternative perspectives or to see the bigger picture, we risk perpetuating harmful stereotypes and limiting our potential for progress and innovation.

To combat myopic views, we must be willing to engage in meaningful dialogue and to consider alternative perspectives. We must recognize the value of diversity and inclusion in all areas of society, and work to create environments that are welcoming and inclusive for all. By doing so, we can create a more just and equitable world, where everyone has the opportunity to thrive and reach their full potential.

 

Freedom is Continuous

Freedom is defined as the state of not being imprisoned or enslaved. It is the ability to act, speak, and think without external constraints or limitations.

But does that mean freedom is just the absence of imprisonment or slavery? Well, if we take a look at the adage "Dark is not the opposite of Light, it is the absence of Light," it's easy to see how this same concept can be applied to freedom. Freedom isn't necessarily the opposite of slavery, but rather the absence of it. It's a state of being where one isn't bound or limited by external forces.

However, it's important to note that freedom is relative. Just like darkness is relative to a reference frame, freedom can mean different things for different people depending on their context. For example, for a slave, freedom might mean not being bound by slavery, whereas for a student, freedom might mean not having to follow strict rules.

Freedom is more than just the lack of external constraints; it's the ability to live and act in a way that aligns with one's values and desires. However, this definition only scratches the surface of what freedom truly means.

If someone is struggling to make ends meet and is living pay check to pay check, they may not have the freedom to pursue their passions or take risks. They may be limited in their ability to travel, pursue higher education, or start a business.

A person who is marginalized due to their race, gender, sexuality, or other identity factors may not have the same level of freedom as someone who is not. They may face systemic barriers that prevent them from accessing certain opportunities or resources, which can limit their ability to fully exercise their freedom.

A person who is struggling with mental health issues such as anxiety or depression may feel limited in their ability to fully engage with the world around them. They may feel trapped by their own thoughts and emotions, which impacts their sense of freedom.

The definition of freedom can vary depending on the context and the individual in question. A person living in a repressive regime may view freedom as the ability to speak out against the government without fear of persecution. On the other hand, a person living in a more liberal society may view freedom as the ability to pursue their own interests and goals without external interference.

Freedom is not always a binary concept. It's not simply a matter of being free or unfree; there are many shades of grey in between. A person may be technically free to pursue their dreams, but they may face significant obstacles and barriers that limit their ability to do so. In this case, their freedom is limited even though they are not technically imprisoned or enslaved.

So, what does all of this mean for us in our daily lives? It's not enough to simply focus on the absence of external constraints; we need to be aware of the many social, economic, and psychological factors that can limit our freedom.

It also means that we need to be mindful of the fact that different individuals and groups may have different values and priorities when it comes to freedom. We need to be open to different perspectives and be willing to engage in constructive dialogue to find common ground.

Freedom requires us to recognize that we are all interconnected and that our actions have real-world consequences for others. It requires us to move beyond our own individual desires and consider the well-being of the larger community. It requires us to recognize that true freedom is not just the absence of external constraints, but also the ability to live a full and meaningful life that is not limited by social, economic, or psychological factors.

The concept of freedom is both simple and complex. While it is defined as the state of not being imprisoned or enslaved, it is also impacted by a wide range of social, economic, and psychological factors. It is a fundamental human right that is essential for our well-being and flourishing, and promoting it requires us to recognize our interconnectedness and work together to create a more just and equitable society.

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Embrace Yourself :: A Journey to Self-Acceptance

Have you ever had those moments where you catch yourself staring in the mirror, picking apart every imperfection, wishing you looked more like the airbrushed images we see plastered across magazines? It's like a never-ending cycle of comparing ourselves to these unrealistic beauty standards, and let's face it, it is EXHAUSTING.

Here's the thing: in this whirlwind of doubts and insecurities, there's a profound truth we often overlook. Self-acceptance and self-love aren't just buzzwords thrown around in self-help books; they're the cornerstone for personal growth and genuine happiness. Embracing who we are, flaws and all, is the catalyst for unlocking our full potential and finding fulfillment in our lives. 

So, what is self-acceptance? It's pretty simple, actually. It's about accepting yourself for who you are, flaws and all. It's about recognizing that you're not perfect, and that's okay. It's about loving yourself despite your imperfections.

When you embrace yourself, you're showing yourself love and acceptance. You're allowing yourself to be who you are without judgment or criticism. When you're *NOT* constantly judging and criticizing yourself, you can focus on what truly matters in life.

Every body is different and beautiful in its own way. When you embrace your body, you are giving yourself permission to love yourself and be happy with who you are. You are showing yourself love and acceptance. You are allowing yourself to be who YOU are without judgment or criticism.

Let's remember to treat ourselves with the same kindness and compassion we extend to others. Let's continue to embrace our bodies, recognizing the beauty in our uniqueness and diversity.

Here's to loving ourselves unconditionally, cherishing every flaw as a testament to our individuality, and standing tall in pride of who we are. Because in this journey of self-acceptance, our worth shines brightest when we embrace our true selves.

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Microscopic or Telescopic

An Evening with Chirag Shah

It is a beautiful day and luckily today, Chirag (officially Chirag Shah) is slightly less occupied. Otherwise a busy person, he agrees for a brief chat and interview for my blog.  As we start, I ask him for a name and he says jo marzee bulalo (you can call by whatever name), but Chiru, he says, is quite common amongst family and friends. 

A Mumbaikar, relocating to namma Bengaluru is his first ever emigration. His experience living in a concoction of piquancy of the city gives him the courage to survive anywhere with ease. A vigorous person, he begins the day with Surya Namaskaars, small walks and a positive attitude towards Life. He maintains healthy eating habits, but stumbles when confronted with a Samosa, Sandwich or Misal Pav.

He is a perfect “Chef-Salad” – Chartered accountancy, Entrepreneurship, humor, management, level-headedness, mentoring, anger, patience and a passion for writing, all chopped up and mixed together in a vinaigrette of sarcasm and emotions.

When asked for personal background and who he is most attached to – “I am a male… Married.  You are putting me into a fix by asking whom I am more attached to. No male would have answer for this!!”, he asserts. Grocery, he adds, is one definite weekend activity, astonished at the amount of food that is consumed.

His mantra for Success – “Put your 100% in what you do. The outcome is not in your hand.  You are the only person whom you can’t lie or cheat to so don’t try to cover it. Success is a myth till you achieve it.”

A strong patron of learning from failures, he believes in the special training received by pursuing his own ventures. His roller coaster experiences translate into the skilled professional and considerate human being that he is today. An opportunist, he utilizes every skill to its advantage and sees every fall as a learning experience. Every day, he believes, has something to teach and a bundle of memories to add. Meeting and knowing people with unique mind sets and varied outlook, he reckons, adds value.

Appearing very calm at the surface, he is constantly planning and conceptualizing. Astonishingly, he is also a Karate Black belt and would have been an international player, but for his fractured arm that shifted his course. And we are glad that it did.

Combine a passion for writing with an avid reading habit and you can expect a masterpiece. Chirag is one of those rare combinations. It should come as no wonder that he contributed to the compilation of “The Scout” – a book on Headly who masterminded the 26/11 Mumbai blasts. He is currently working on a book about management and his experiences, which is due for completion. More books in the pipeline, he says. Immortalized in Ink, he will remain.

Before he joined us, he worked for a Canadian based outfit in Bangalore as Director- Operations. The out-going and experimental person that he is, his first ever job was working for himself – wherein the first eLearning Company in India teaching Chartered Accountants online was conceptualized. He was 20 then, and there has been no turning back.

He fondly recollects a call from an ex-employee’s mother, who hailed from a village near Chennai. The mother thanked Chirag for giving her Son an opportunity to work in their company because of which they were able to build a house. This call, he says, is the most satisfying complement he has received till date. 

Chill Maadi is a motto he lives by. The higher the expectations, the higher the stress, he holds. Typically sangfroid, marriage is the biggest stress, he remarks. On a more significant note, a mail or a call from the customer sighting dissatisfaction regarding support service creates anxiety, he adds. He maintains his composure by listening to Jagjit Singh Ghazals and being in the company of a round cushion which is his childhood buddy.

To lighten the mood a little, we did a rapid fire –

• If you woke up tomorrow as an animal, what animal would you choose to be and why?

Spider, if it is allowed to be called an Animal. I always like to climb back with every fall.

• Are you a sunrise, daylight, twilight, or night person?

I am Sunrise – I rise with a hope every day. 

• What item that you don't have already, would you most like to own?

Xbox 

• If today were the last day of your life, what would you be doing now?

Give all my passwords to wife, eat lots of ice-creams and rewind my life with my family. 

• Yamraj (The lord of Death) is before you and has come to take you along. However, he is feeling exceptionally generous and tells you he will let you live for as many years as you already have, but, you have to ask him a question that he cannot answer or give him a reason that he cannot fix. What would you do? (Note: you cannot choose to die.!!)

Yamraj how about a selfie, people want to know how you look 

• You are face to face with a demon who will grant you 3 wishes, on the condition that you cannot ask for any personal benefit. He will disappear after you have asked to never be seen again. You have 5 minutes. You will be his dinner if you do not ask for anything. What would you ask?

o   Make India a Super Power

o   At least 30 Gold medals for India in next Olympics

o   Grant me 5 more wishes please 

• There is a wooden suspension bridge that takes you from one bank of the Niagara Falls to the other. All your hearts’ desires are at the other side of the bridge. Would you cross it?

No, because there are many hearts this side who desire me more 

• If you had to leave behind everything you currently have and only then cross the bridge, would you do it?

Still not, I am a very satisfied guy. 

• Which is the One thing that has been in your wallet for the longest time? Do you still have it?

A card with some numbers given by someone my family believed in. It is with me for more than 20 years now. 

A glance at the clock indicates it is time to draw this evening to a close. With his experience and maturity, I ask him for advice and he says "Stay put".

If you win, you learn. If you lose, you learn more

Meet with Murli

He is fondly known as Murli and is formally known as Murlidhara. Our request to know his nickname is politely brushed aside.

A dedicated, hardworking and simple person, he hails from namma Bengaluru. A person of simple tastes, he doesn’t move around lot. His travel plans are generally with Family, during vacations.

A Bachelors in Computers from PES College, he says Masters Education was never on his mind. He completed Masters in computer applications from SJCIT College, Chikkaballapura, Karnataka as it was his parents’ wish. He believes that this was the turning point in his life.

After completing MCA, he worked for Hindustan Aeronautics Limited as SQL support for Human resource department for very small duration. He dreamt of building a career in the IT field and moved on to join a start-up company RCS technologies as JAVA/JSP developer.

When quizzed about his family, he says “Hum Panch”. His Dad is an Ex-HAL employee and Mom, Home maker. His partner Amitha is a Home maker. They are blessed with a daughter – Nishka who is studying. They are his pillars of support and encouragement.

A balanced man that he is, he devotes his success to the belief of his team. He finds strength in his team and recons it is worth more than anything to work with such concoction of diverse people. With each one bringing different working styles, he says has helped him both personally and professionally improvise.

His greatest challenge: “Shuffling resources when they are already on another Job.”

The Best and Worst: “Best is achievement and Worst is Opportunity to improve. Both are equally important.”

Best compliment: “To hear that a Projects Go-Live is a success”

Funniest incident: “I won the first place in Dance [DJ floor]. I am definitely not good at dance. It felt more like I was exercising to get slimmer. So yes, it was a surprise that I bagged the first place”

On work/life balance: Things are smooth and it would not have been possible without Family support. Stress does not have a place and he steers clear from anything that will bring anxiety. He has his feet on the ground and holds his head high up, making it easy to strike a balance.

On a more personal note, he is a Movie buff and a fan of old classics [Kannada, Telugu, Hindi, Tamil, and English]. In music, he is partial to Bollywood. MTV was his Favorited channel during school/ college. In food, he savours spices and South Indian food.

In weekends, he prefers to stay at home and enjoy his favorite activity – watch TV. But more often than not, his family plans otherwise.

Stories to share:

During my bachelor’s degree, I bunked classes just like my friends but somehow I never had shortage of attendance. My friends always whined about this and somehow believed that I had been attending the classes without their knowledge.

Another instance, it was Diwali time and we thought of doing something fun. There was a small passage right next to my class. We fellows lit a small piece of Agarbatti and joined it to the wick of a cracker. Class was on and after sometime there was loud Boom! Everyone rushed to see the spot and our gang also joined the mob as if we do not know anything.

First year MCA, again Diwali time, entire class mass bunked and left to our respective hometown. Next day this message went to the Principal. One of my friend called me to inform; Principal is calling everyone back and report immediately. I was not interested to return so called Principal and told him I have a flat tyre, so will meet tomorrow. Principal cracked joke angrily, not to worry I will send my car to pick you. Somehow I managed to stay back home and attended class after Diwali. Everything was normal.

There are many such funny moments. Good old college days are always evergreen in our hearts.

Believe in Yourself. Always be satisfied with your work.